I’ve cleaned out my closet because I’m a fan of metaphor, and because I don’t have a magic grief reliever or pregnancy disappearer or fast forward button for our lives.
And also- I’m going to say this because I’m tired of dancing around the issue and being afraid of losing friends: I’ve lost a SHITLOAD of [...]

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Summer on March 1st, 2010

I know my 5-year old is exposed to other…forces outside my control. Children of the fundies. Kids that get out of the trucks with the confederate flags. Children that hear the N word at dinner. They play together at recess, because my daughter wasn’t raised to fear and avoid these kids, and at such a young age these little soldiers in God’s army don’t know yet that they’re not supposed to like her. We’re sure we can undo whatever is done to our kids during the school day. We can re-educate them. De-brief them. This might be a good time to mention that the superintendent of schools in this county does not believe in evolution.

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Summer on February 4th, 2010

COFFEE FIRST. Then breakfast. Oxygen mask goes on the grownup FIRST. THEN the child. I cannot stress this enough. If the morning starts out right, you’ve got a fighting chance.

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Summer on August 16th, 2008

Dear LittleA,
Monday you turned four years old. Since you were born, August 11th has been a bittersweet day for me, a time to remember the strange juxtaposition of trauma and joy. I remember cradling the phone in my neck while excitedly packing a suitcase that afternoon, trying to conceal my feelings from Melanie while we [...]

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Summer on May 4th, 2008

1) what the HELL is this?

I had to relocate it when we were hedging today (read: trying to save our plants from being suffocated by FoX Grape vines) and the thing would not fly away and when I disturbed him he sort of squirted neon yellow liquid everywhere. Finally I had to pick off the [...]

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